If your marriage feels like this....
You're not alone.
Affair shattered trust. You both are left wondering if it can be rebuilt.
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​Alone in your marriage. Ignored, abandoned, rejected, invisible and painfully disconnected. ​​
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Fights escalate fast. You're stuck in a toxic cycle and don't know how to make it stop. ​​​
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​​​Sex life non-existent. Passion is gone. You feel more like roommates than lovers.
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Walking on eggshells. The constant emotional roller coaster is leaving both of you drained. ​​​​​​​​​​​
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Can't let go of past resentment. Leaving both of you stuck not knowing how to move past this.
You don't have to stay stuck.
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There's a proven path forward.
Take the first step today...
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Problems We Help With...
Meet the Founder.
Helping Couples Stop the Fighting, Rebuild Trust & Re-Discover Closeness Again.
Luke Dickens, PhD
Trained in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), EMDR, Attachment Based EMDR, Gottman Couples Method.
Founder of Dickens Marriage & Family Therapy Center.
I know the heartache of feeling like the person you love most is miles away.
Maybe it’s the years of conflict that never seem to get resolved.
Or the shock of betrayal that turned your world upside down.
Deep down, you long to feel safe, close, and truly understood again
But right now, you have no idea how to get there.
Over the years, I’ve walked alongside couples who were on the brink.
Some came shattered by betrayal.
Others were worn down by endless fights.
Or the painful distance of living like roommates.
Many feared they had already lost too much.
But when couples are given the safety, guidance, and tools they need.
I’ve seen healing take root.
And relationships once thought broken begin to come back to life
That’s why I do this work. My team and I have been trained in research proven approaches for rebuilding relationships.
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Including Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), the Gottman Method, and Attachment-based EMDR.
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But more important than the methods we use; is the space we create together.
A space where you can feel safe enough to begin healing the connection between you.
And gain the most effective tools to create lasting change in your relationship.
You don't have to stay stuck in this place.
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Your first session is free.
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In that session we start to uncover the patterns keeping you stuck.
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And create a plan to help you both get close to each other again.
What We Can Do For Your Marriage.
"You don't have to wait months to feel things start to change"
Stop the Fights that Destroy Closeness
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You'll feel arguments calm down before they spiral out of control.
Heal the triggers that keep your relationship stuck in pain and isolation.
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You'll start to feel less tense and more connected instead of trapped in same painful cycle.
Communicate with each other without feeling like enemies.
Conversations that once ended in blame and silence start to feel safer and productive.
Heal the root of disconnection so this kind of pain doesn't repeat.
This isn't about communicating better - it's about knowing this kind of pain won't happen again.
Restore emotional safety so that you don't stay in a sexless marriage.
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When safety returns, passion and desire have room to grow and feel natural again.
Lasting change doesn’t happen by chance.
It happens through a clear method.
One that every couple can follow, no matter how broken things feel.
Here’s the two-stage process we use to help you rebuild safety and connection step by step.
Our Two-Stage Process to Rebuild Safety and Connection
Using a proven two-stage approach, most couples find healing in 8–20 sessions.
Moving from conflict or betrayal toward stability, trust, and connection that lasts.
Stage 1 - Rebuilding Safety
Relieve tension and rebuild trust so healing can begin.
Whether the pain comes from betrayal, distance, or constant conflict — everything starts here.
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Before connection can return, your nervous systems must feel safe again.
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We will help you both feel safe enough to discuss these triggers in session, so you can work together to rebuild your relationship.
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Each session, we’ll guide you through these triggering moments so you can talk without fear or shutdown.
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You’ll start to feel a sense of relief, calm, and hope that change is possible.
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This is where safety begins to rebuild.
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Where the chaos quiets, trust starts to return, and your body finally believes the relationship can heal.
Stage 2- Creating Connection
Feel closeness return naturally
When safety returns, your body and mind have room to breathe again.
Moments of laughter, warmth, and ease begin to surface.
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And what once felt impossible starts to feel within reach.
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Week by week, we will help you experience what it means to reconnect
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Not just talk about connection but feel it.
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You’ll notice how safety gives rise to new forms of closeness,
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How comfort turns into trust.
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And how understanding deepens intimacy over time.
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This is where connection begins to grow.
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Not forced or mechanical but born out of trust and openness.
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You’ll remember what it feels like to enjoy each other again.
Healing doesn’t have to wait.
Let’s begin rebuilding safety and connection together — your first session is free.
Backed by the Most Trusted Couples Therapy Methods
Certified in evidence-based approaches.
Proven to help couples in distress rebuild trust, safety and connection quickly.
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The same proven methods that have helped hundreds of couples heal.
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They can help you too...
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Let's start your healing journey - your first session is free.
Dickens Marriage & Family Therapy- Keller Office
